My study at the moment is to integrate all the teachings I have learned and apply them into a model that is easy to understand. The main area of study is belief systems and their affects on behavior and reality. Beliefs are the background to all teachings that have evolved from psycho cybernetics. Beyond psycho cybernetics there is the study of manifestation or 'law of attraction'. In the end they all revert back to belief. In many teachings there are lots of different words from different teachers meaning the same thing. This is only because they speak in different contexts and use different connotations. For example a belief system can be called your mental paradigm, map of the mind, blueprint, self image, or sometimes mental programming. Belief manipulation can also be described as hypnosis or placebo effect. They refer to the same thing but in different contexts. I am going to be talking about beliefs in the context of rules and your belief system being your rule system. I do this to deliver the easiest way to explain your mind and how it works in an approach to change you and your environment.
Life is a game without rules but everybody has their own rules on how to play the game. Change the rules, change the game.
There are billions of different people in this world. Find the most contrasting couple of people in the world and their differences lays in their psychology. Psychology consists of so many things but it mostly consists of the rule system/belief system. What a person can or can't do or will or won't do is dependent on their rules system. People see, feel, and act upon the world through their rules. So what are these rules I am talking about? These rules are the way you perceive and act in your environment. You have rules in the way you perceive the environment and the circumstances in it. You also have rules in the way to act or react in your environment. Your success and failure is due to the conscious and unconscious rules you have. As I say - life is a game without rules but we create rules in our mind to survive. We started creating rules from day one and continue to everyday from then to distinguish this mysterious and uncertain life. The question is are the rules in your game empowering or dis-empowering?
All of your rules come from your own evaluations of life experiences or other people's. The rules you have are affecting you depending on the level in which believe them. Your rules/beliefs are backed up by references. There must be a reason for any rule. If you set a goal to achieve something but you have a lot of trouble achieving it, it will be because you have a other rules that conflict with the achievement of the goal. For example if your goal was to achieve greater financial abundance but you have rules like 'obtaining more finance means hard work' and 'hard work is painful' then your progression will be stunted. These rules are backed up by references - until you have changed or attained new references your going to be stuck. Find references to back up a new rule that says 'obtaining more finance will be exciting.' Search for new references or create them. To think of new rules is one things but to believe them is another. What happens when you think of a new rule that will empower your attainment of your goal but you don't believe it? It's awareness of how your rules shape you, and the ability to choose rules and believe in them because you know they will empower you.
Hypnosis is a clear illustration of manipulating rules. When in a trance the hypnotist says to the client "you enjoy your work. You love the experience work gives you and you find ways to make it better." The mind accepts this rule and believes it. You act the way you think. Your thinking is programed by your rules.
Note: real change in behavour does not just come from believing in it but linking the belief to fulfil a need (human need psychology). Everybody does things for a reason, six actually. You do something because you believe it will meet one or more of your needs. Change your behavour by believing your change and linking it to fulfil multiple needs.
Love in everybody,
Seb
Monday, 5 April 2010
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